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Post  Mike R on March 7th 2015, 7:31 pm

Things are looking grim, they took my Dad back to the hospital. it's not looking good. The doctor said it could take days to weeks but he's dying.I'm at a loss, I can't imagine life without him. He's my best friend and was always there when I needed him, pulled my ass out of many fires and stood by me through the worst, he never gave up on me.I don't know what I'm going to do without him. We have a hospice meeting tomorrow, my heart is broken. Fellows, if you believe please send prayers to end his suffering quickly

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Post  dfree383 on March 7th 2015, 8:09 pm

Sorry to hear, it's never easy to loose one.
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Post  dr's wife racing on March 7th 2015, 8:32 pm

Sorry to hear. I've been thru it to. It's not a easy thing. You will find strength in the very things he taught you. Prayers sent for you and your family.
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Post  69F100 on March 7th 2015, 8:42 pm

Mike very sorry to hear this

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Post  dave d on March 7th 2015, 9:41 pm

Prayers are sent to you and your family, just spend as much time with him as you can. Just lost my dad before Christmas and think of him everyday
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Post  Moodyblues on March 8th 2015, 2:15 am

Prayers sent.
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Post  747JetMech on March 8th 2015, 3:38 am

Mike, I feel your pain. Went through this with my dad also and it changed me inside when it was over. I wish you and your family inner peace..

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Post  Gregaust on March 8th 2015, 4:29 am

So feel for you Mike . 16 months ago I was there too . Rarely a day goes by he's not in my thoughts .. Just before there was a time he came good . So glad I was there to share with him gave me the best memories .

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Post  plowboy34 on March 8th 2015, 10:01 am

Sorry to hear and will be praying....afraid I will be there soon and we sound just like you two....he is always there and positive

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Post  gmsmkr on March 8th 2015, 10:46 am

Prayers out to you and family
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Post  sg86coupe on March 8th 2015, 10:51 am

Went through the same thing 15 months ago know what your going through. Hospice was great, they took his pain away. He passed in peace.

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Post  70FB on March 8th 2015, 11:25 am

Prayers sent
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Post  torino501 on March 8th 2015, 12:35 pm

I lost my dad 3 yrs ago. he was 67 I was 41 at the time. seems like it was not so long ago. there are no words that can describe the hurt. I feel ya my man. the good lord to my dad and gave me my first child 8 months later. the good lord took one set of worry's and gave me another set. he looks just like my dad too when he was a baby. crazy...
my dad was in hospice for 30 days. the hardest thing ive ever done in my life. im an only child as well. and all of our relatives where in Arkansas. you'll have your memories. and the little quirks that you do you'll realize you got from your dad.its tough but you'll get through it. you have to for the sake of others. prayers to you and your family. god bless.
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Post  bbf-falcon on March 8th 2015, 2:03 pm

Sorry Mike, prayers sent. Sad

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Post  FalconEh on March 8th 2015, 3:18 pm

Sorry Mike, Thoughts and prayers. He will always be with you nothing can take that away.
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Post  56Tbird on March 9th 2015, 9:24 am

Mike,I lost my Dad 8 yrs. ago to cancer ,seems like only yesterday. He was my best friend too. I know where you are,you will get through this with a lot of tears and pain.My thoughts and prayers are with you. He will be in a better place when it's over.
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Post  DILLIGASDAVE on March 10th 2015, 4:25 am

That sucks Mike, sorry to hear.
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Post  Mike R on March 10th 2015, 9:44 pm

We moved him into a Hospice house today. It's a beautiful place where he will die comfortably with dignity not ignored to death at the nursing home. Thanks for the prayers and good wishes guys. My Dad was a great man who stood beside me through the worst part of my life and never gave up on me.

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Post  69F100 on March 10th 2015, 11:32 pm

Mike R wrote:We moved him into a Hospice house today. It's a beautiful place where he will die comfortably with dignity not ignored to death at the nursing home. Thanks for the prayers and good wishes guys. My Dad was a great man who stood beside me through the worst part of my life and never gave up on me.


Mike sure hate to hear this I know the Hospice House in Austell Ga. that my sister in-law was in sure was nice and a lot better than any nursing home I have ever seen. They sure made sure she stayed as comfortable as possible the time she was there before she passed and us also. We will keep You and the Family in our prayers.
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Post  gmsmkr on March 11th 2015, 10:45 am

Sorry to hear that Mike I haven't lost my pops it would feel like the end of the world to me.. prayers go out that he goes easy and that you and family stay strong.
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Post  bruno on March 11th 2015, 11:12 am

Sorry to hear Mike, my mom has been fighting it hard for the last 5 years. We are here if you need us.
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Post  Wes Littrell on March 14th 2015, 9:32 am

Sorry to hear. Prayers for you and your family.
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Post  butterbean on March 14th 2015, 11:12 am

sorry to here that you will be loosing your dad, lost mine back on July 3 1996 so I know how it is, prayers sent


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Post  Mike R on March 15th 2015, 1:52 am

He went to a hospice home earlier this week, it's a beautiful place with a wonderful caring staff. At least there he will be able to die comfortably and with dignity rather than being ignored to death at the nursing home.

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Post  jasonf on March 15th 2015, 10:51 pm

That sucks. I lost my dad last year and all you can do is push through.
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